Learning how to be an escort girl means learning as much about yourself as it does about sexually controlling a submissive partner. It’s not easy for anyone (especially many women) to be in control, but playing a dominant role in a BDSM scene can be incredibly empowering. After all, your sub surrenders herself completely to you – how erotic is that? Whether you decide to use the most terrifying forms of sensory torture, learn sensory torture techniques, or even become the ultimate mistress of the home, here’s how to start your journey. We’ll explain the pros and cons of BDSM play, how to get involved in the role, and what types of pain you can inflict on your sub. “Escort girl” is a term often used to refer to a woman (or a female-oriented person) who takes on a dominant role over a partner or other person in a BDSM context. Being an escort girl can be a professional role where people come to you and pay you to be dominated, or it can be a role you take on simply for pleasure. There are also “lifestyle escort girls” who take on the role as part of their daily lives, not just the sex scene. The term “dominatrix” is commonly used in popular culture, but many people in the BDSM community prefer the terms “dom” or “domme.” If an escort girl is professional, they would use the word “escort girl.” Escort girls usually do not have sex with their clients or perform any kind of sexual acts. This is due to rules and laws regarding sex work in different areas. However, some escort girls admit that the boundaries can sometimes get a little blurry. For example, they try not to make things sexual, even when torturing the client’s genitals. However, when they are playing a dominant role at home, they can be as sexy as they like. In this article, we will focus on leisure activities as an escort girl. We’ll show you how to take control and get more comfortable in the bedroom and suggest all kinds of things you might want to try. It may seem like you can do whatever you want with your partner, but in reality, it’s the sub who controls your actions. Before you do anything else, you should each take the time to talk about what you feel are your limits. If you’re not sure, don’t worry. We have a concept that takes uncertainty into account, called “hard” and “soft” boundaries. As you learn how to be a successful escort, you also have to learn how to understand and communicate with your sub. It helps to understand your partner’s body language and facial expressions. However, when you’re roleplaying, it can be difficult to distinguish which characters are fake and which are real. That’s why you need to decide on a safeword together. This is something your sub can say to end the scene instantly, without any questions asked. Better yet, choose a word you wouldn’t normally hear in that environment, like “Broccoli!” Unless you’re someone who naturally assumes this role in the bedroom, being an escort girl might feel weird or unnatural at first. However, the key is to get into the role and find what suits you. We recommend choosing a topic that appeals to you and your partner’s fantasies. Then, choose an outfit that makes you feel confident, sexy, and self-assured. Classic leather, latex catsuits, formal business attire, sexy teachers, steampunk queens – anything you like is available. Don’t be afraid to practice a little on yourself first. Stand in front of the mirror wearing an outfit you like. Try different things to say and do until you find what feels best. You can even try taking some sexy photos of yourself – a surefire way to get you in the mood. When you’re ready, create a scene. Your escort girl’s acting will be more natural if she’s immersed in the experience, so take your time to create the atmosphere. You can decorate a room according to a theme – get inspired – or you can simply create a sensual atmosphere by dimming the lights and adding some music and evocative scents.
