shley Madison, the world’s leading dating site for married people*, surveyed over 3,000 members to find out how safe escort babes are. The data showed that the “no gloves, no love” rule was paramount among surveyed members, with 76% saying they would use a condom during an affair with their partner. Weathering the Waters of Infidelity Even if risk isn’t their middle name, safety seems to play a key role as Adult members keep it in mind when playing in bed.
Perhaps people feel comfortable wearing a condom during an affair because they know they are safe, and feel the risk is limited to protect against STIs. Ultimately, it comes down to discretion, right? So limiting all risks is what drives success. But how does this apply to marriage? When it comes to using condoms in marriage, 71% of respondents said they don’t use condoms with their spouse. Some say condoms reduce pleasure, while others say they don’t need them because they’ve been with their partner for so long that they don’t have to worry about infection. But are married people immune? After a few months, years… or even days together, people get comfortable with each other, confident that they won’t catch any STIs, and the gloves come off. People enter into extramarital affairs at different times in their lives because they feel there is something they need in their lives and their marriages. Think about it. If, like 71% of our respondents, you don’t use condoms with your partner and you decide to cheat while continuing to have sex with them, wouldn’t they be skeptical if after years they suddenly say: “Honey, I think you should use a condom this time”? Indeed, this will probably lead to an unwanted argument.
So, if you think about it, the excuse for not using condoms because you’ve been in a relationship for a long time is not necessarily a convincing one.
But the bright side is that more than three-quarters (76%) of those surveyed use contraception during sex. Most respondents who have extramarital affairs do so safely and protect their partners from the risk of sexually transmitted diseases. Of course, transmitting an STI to your partner is a sure way to expose your infidelity. So our members are doing two things right on the checklist for a successful affair: using protection to protect themselves from STIs and using Adult to keep their affairs discreet.
It’s interesting to think how important discretion is for people who are about to have an affair, and how often they worry that their affairs will be exposed. In a segment on the topic of “Safe Escort Babes,” Adult asked its members which they were more worried about contracting an STI or being found out about their affair. The results showed that 55% of respondents were more afraid of contracting an STI than of their partner finding out about their indiscretion. Of course, this is to be expected, since it’s hard to hide an STI from your spouse, and you should take precautions on all fronts. For many, what is missing in marriage can be more easily experienced discreetly, or sometimes openly, with someone else while keeping their marriage and family intact. Safe and secure extramarital escort babes can help maintain this balance rather than disrupt it, but only if done correctly.
Monogamy is a social construct, not a natural inclination. Therefore, if infidelity is part of human behavior, it is better to stay safe in your marriage than end it.
