Of course, great lovemaking is all about finding great techniques that your partner likes. But it can be even more enjoyable with a love kit full of fun and enticing accessories. Today, we’re looking at pre-made love kits, what to look for in one, and how to put together your own personalized kit for oral spectacle… Do you mean other than your partner? Sorry, couldn’t resist! Love kits, like the blowjob itself, can be very different, which means you might have to shop around a bit to find your perfect combination of BJ accessories. But there are some common components you can expect to find in many love kits. This includes: Of course, not all of these are included in every set. There are some you should avoid: those that cause anesthesia or desensitization (more on this below). Two pre-made love kits we like are the Doc Johnson Good Head for Him set and the Fun Factory Blow & Glow set. We get it, your gag reflex might be bothersome. If you’re trying to please your partner with oral sex, an overactive gag reflex can make things difficult or cause anxiety. Having something to numb your throat and mouth seems like a viable idea, right? Unfortunately, it’s not that easy. Anesthetics like deepthroat sprays can suppress the gag reflex, but they also numb the pain you feel. If you feel pain during oral sex because of your gag reflex for any reason, you should stop immediately. Anesthetic sprays also make no distinction between your mouth and your partner’s penis. If you use a spray, mint, or other desensitizer, it will quickly move onto the penis, numbing it and making it less sensitive. This way, the whole point of a blowjob is defeated. You are under no obligation to take the penis that far into your mouth. If you are comfortable with it and you know your partner enjoys deep blowjobs, do it as much as you can. With practice, you may be able to overcome a strong gag reflex but try using an anesthetic spray in your mouth. Instead of trying to numb your throat, try these tips: Worrying about whether you’ll gag and how uncomfortable it will be increases the likelihood that you will do so. Take a deep breath, massage your jaw muscles, and what’s going to happen is going to happen. It’s always more important than whether your partner takes his penis into your throat or not.Place one hand around the shaft of his penis, as deep as it feels comfortable. This will stop him from going too deep and give you a hand job!Take a few breaks between sucking to give your gag reflex time to relax and return to normal. Use your hands or a masturbator to keep your partner busy in the meantime. The best way to get all the oral sex treats you love without wasting money on things you don’t like is to stock up on a love kit. And it’s surprisingly easy! Here are some ideas on what you might want to incorporate, as well as some expert recommendations to get you started. There are lots of reasons we love penis, but flavor isn’t necessarily one of them. Flavored lubes are no replacement for good hygiene, but they can help make love a little more delicious. Check them all out, and you’ll see they have a huge selection of flavored lubes in every flavor you can imagine. Most of the products are very sweet and contain sugar or sweeteners, so they shouldn’t be used vaginally or anally. They are great for blowjobs, though. One of our favorite brands is Sliquid’s Swirl series, a high-quality water-based lubricant that’s free of glycerin and parabens. Available in eight flavors: Blue Raspberry, Cherry Vanilla, Pina Colada, Pink Lemonade, and Blackberry Fig. If you want something extra sweet and indulgent, look no further than Wicked Salted Caramel lube. It’s long-lasting and non-sticky. Or, for a change of pace, try GoodHead’s Doc Johnson Flavored Lubricants 5-Pack.
