We often have very intimate sexual relationships with people and like to know more about them. Maybe because we think we know them better or maybe because we like to participate. In any case, your “number” is often at the center of the conversation. My question is: does it matter how many people you’ve had sex with? Does it make a difference that you’re someone they can trust, someone they can relate to? Is it that important that you sleep with three or three hundred people?
What does a high number mean?
A high number can indicate that you have sexual experience because you have slept with many people to learn new techniques and methods to act like someone. They are also more spontaneous and fun to be around. Although this sounds good on the one hand, it can also mean that you have slept with people who have “easy morals” and are therefore not very reliable because you are free and open up about the people you’ve slept with. Really? Maybe it just means you’ve been taking more chances with other people, rather than ignoring, rejecting, or looking for that thing in them that means you don’t want to have sex with them.
What does a low number mean?
Good news! A low number means you’re having a lot more sex because you choose who you have sex with more carefully. Plan and have a clear idea of what you want from life and how you’re going to get it. The bad news you’re seen as boring, predictable, and unwilling to try new things. That new restaurant that opened in town doesn’t go there. You’ll probably be in your previous sexual relationship eating the same food as usual. But seriously, you may not feel like you’ve reached that point in your sexual relationships with other people where you want to be intimate. Maybe you’re looking for a specific type of sex in people you sleep with, or maybe you haven’t had many opportunities to sit down and get dirty with someone.
